American Women's Club of Luxembourg

President's Page

Melanie Salava

The Paradox of Perfection

Aristotle understood that "perfect" meant "complete" – with nothing to add or subtract.  The ancient philosopher Empedocles believed that imperfection was "perfect." If the world were perfect, there would be no need for improvement or "true perfection" which relies on progress.

     I'm struggling to write my final President's page.  I want it to be "perfect" - I have so many people to thank, events to highlight and hopes for the AWCL's future. However, I’m comforted to know that even great minds - like the noted intellectuals above - cannot agree on the concept of perfection.  I concur with Aristotle that I feel "complete" with my treasured President's term.  It is time for me to hand over the baton to someone else, though it has been a true joy and deep honor for me to serve this membership.  Likewise, I agree with Empedocles that there were many imperfections in my term's year and the membership should consider ways for progress and improvement.

     At the start of my Presidency we lacked a Grapevine team and the membership felt unhappy about the abrupt membership fee increase.  Whenever a vacuum occurs it is human nature for people to fill that space with rumors and dire predictions.  This, in turn, creates low morale and havoc for our club. It stood as a low point for the AWCL. Ideally, we all should want the club to run smoothly, even if we don't always agree with how things are done.  Right now, we do not know the name of the next AWCL President.  I intend to support that person and the future Board. Please do likewise. Let’s make this year’s transition a proud moment! (By the way - there's still time for someone to accept the wonderful challenge of being our President.  Just inform our dedicated secretary and nominations chair Camille Paul before the May meeting!)

     Despite this grim beginning, things definitely improved, thanks to some dedicated people!  (Whew!) We decreased the membership dues to its original figure, with many generously donating their original increase to the Femmes Developpment Charity to help women and children in Rwanda.  We garnered a new Grapevine layout and editor, Wendy Winn and Luc Rollmann, who jazzed up our monthly magazine look. (Kudos to Karen Mason, Michelle Perini and Becky Krauter in the interim!) We appointed webmasters Connie Starkovs and Susan Handa who created a snazzy user-friendly website. Lisa Williams and the fearless clubhouse crew redesigned our place so it is less office-like and more "homey". (Thanks, Lian Oey, for making sure our DVD stock keeps current and interesting!) Our newly installed windows made our clubhouse more energy efficient, while the computer renovations executed by Bernard of JBIT eased the arduous task of completing the directory for Susanne Hakansson and all our future Membership chairs, such as Melanie Gustanski. Andree Kubilus consistently excelled as the Grapevine Business Manager, bringing in many new advertisers at a profit for our club.  Our amazing ever-ready Living in Luxembourg distributor Charlene Fideler sold our popular book at an amazing rate:  at this writing, more than 15,000 Euros in sales! Our experienced Advisory Board composed of Cathy Colvin Coehlo, Celeste Steies Lopiccolo, Valerie Bombardella, Christel Gerrard, and Celeste Schuh Koehler clearly defined the role of the Advisory Board - something needed, while offering wisdom to the Executive Board.  Indefatigable Dawn Urbon, with partners Annie Fry and Lorie Diletti warmly welcomed our newcomers - sometimes with gatherings twice a month! Meanwhile, our quietly performing and consistently reliable activity chairs remained our "bedrock" - offering a tantalizing array of choices for membership participation.  Some new groups popped up, such as Scrabble, Gardening Girls, Golden Girls, and Walking Shelter Dogs.  3rd VP Courtney Ranson without fail supported and assisted anyone running a group.

     Meanwhile, our monthly meeting events sparkled, thanks, in part, to our organized 2nd VP's Jacqueline Peterson and Petra Reimann.  Judith Thomas, our talented historian and photographer, captured the record breaking turnout of 120 members during our September meeting energetically entertained by the Pirate Productions!  (I personally will not forget Tigger!) Things revved up in October with the hugely successful Halloween Trick or Treat headed by Amy des Robert and the record breaking, serendipitous Silent Auction deftly handled by Catarina Fernandes, our Community Services Chair.  (Unfortunately, this was Amy's last year, as her family is moving to Brussels.  We will miss you Amy and wish you Godspeed!) We thank the Honorable Ambassador Ann Wagner for the use of her lovely home, the Embassy, for the Silent Auction.  Our Honorary President, Stefanie Shaheen, Patricia Reckel, and the other Embassy Staff have consistently been our greatest supporters and we are grateful.  Speaking of thanks, November brought out 75 people to the Ville d'Este to honor our founder Mary Elvinger with a scholarship in her name, while enjoying a scrumptous traditional Thanksgiving feast.  We continued our gratitude by sponsoring a successful, community minded "Merci Letzebuerg" Photo Contest.  With our beautiful and intelligent Parliamentarian Stefania Sakiotis heading this with her team - we're not surprised that people have asked for a repeat. (Any offers to be part of a team?)  The AWCL donated a brand new printer to the ISL Tanzania school project. Who can forget our record-breaking American Stand run by Karen Mason and Barbara Becker?  For the 2nd year in the row, the American Stand has topped the stands in the amount of profit raised for the International Stand.  Our club should feel proud of chipping in together to make this work so well!

            December brought Santa (Richard Williams) to our clubhouse for photos, artistically shot by photographer Michele Jamrozik, who also was a Photo Contest judge.  Cynthia Albrecht kindly hosted her home to for a World Vision Soup Luncheon, continuing in the tradition of former member, Eileen Wiley. We kept our treasurer Sandra Williams busy while recording our donations to benefit World Vision, Unicef and Noah's Arche from Burundi.  Some may recall that Land's End generously donated clothing for various charities, if we could provide the contacts and postage.  FAWCO Representative Karen Kelley and NAMSA Rep Gary Salava worked hard to find places in Afghanistan, Iraq, India, Morocco and Thailand. We thank Mascoe Europe for sponsoring some of these shipments. Eden Shoes partnered with us to provide gently used shoes to the Iraqis.  It wouldn’t be Christmas without the gallant efforts of Lisa Markoff, chair of the Toys for Tots program.  The additional help by AMCHAM, the Marines, business sponsors, moving companies such as Streff and Allied made this a true community outreach to the Luxembourg foyers and to those with autism.  January brought out around 90 people to our monthly meeting to discover health, wellness and fitness.  We didn’t just sit - experts inspired us to get actively involved with Pilates, dance therapy, yoga and more!

            During February, despite requests from our members for evening events for couples, we cancelled our Masquerade Ball headed by Lisa Markoff. It raised the possible notion that sometimes we may think we want things, but the actual effort to participate in a night event may be too much trouble.  Many in the community and within our membership attended the "Women in Leadership Panel Discussion" moderated by 352 Editor Duncan Roberts.  The panelists included American Ambassador Ann Wagner, award-winning Chef Lea Linster, the Network President Lisa McClean and Admiral Linda Bird.  Inspired by how women can support each other – the BLC Chairwoman Rose Schol and myself met to discuss potential ways that the AWCL and BLC can collaborate in future projects.  Already, we have a reciprocal agreement to advertise gratis between clubs. Becky Krauter knows females banding together can help a lot:  that is why we are collecting items for Stemm vun der Stroos, a local homeless shelter.

            Though these events have not occurred yet:  I know they will be well-attended and interesting, likewise:  Image Consultation by Wendy Casey; the Pancake Breakfast fundraiser at the Miami University of Luxembourg chateau (Thanks Annie Fry!) to help those children with special needs and their education; the status of FAWCO by Celeste Brown, FAWCO President, as well as our May Thank You luncheon at Ville d'Este.  Of course, we cannot forget all the efforts Sarah Steies and Kveta Ceska are taking to make the May 31st Moselle Boat Cruise an exceptional evening.  Please sign up for enjoyable time! We have so much to look forward to! Please come - your attendance makes it special!

            Wow! It was quite a year, right?  I urge us not to stop there.  You are invited to attend our May meeting while we conduct our elections to voice your opinions, concerns, advice, and questions for our future.  It will be like a community town meeting.  Should we continue on the course of this year?  Should we add more things? Should we simplify and not do so many events, since we have many priorities outside the AWCL?  Should we raise or keep our membership dues the same – based on our expectations?  Help us to discover what is "perfect" for our AWCL.  You decide.  I can only guide you to that choice and I thank you for letting me be your leader in the past year. It was "good enough" - according to the philosophical me - which is just perfect!

Melanie Salava

President 2007-2008