American Women's Club of Luxembourg


FAWCO and the AWCL - A Brief History    

 

 In 1947 two young American women living in Luxembourg met and a great friendship was formed.  Mary Elvinger and Kappy Dupong had both fallen in love with Luxembourgers.  Mary was the first American woman to get married in Luxembourg following World War II, and Kappy followed suit, marrying the son of Prime Minister Lambert Dupong.   The bond between these two stylish and enthusiastic friends was to pave the way for many women in Luxembourg over the following years.

In the 1950s Luxembourg was in industrial resurgence.  Big American firms such as Goodyear,  Commercial Hydraulics and Dupont de Nemours came to the Grand Duchy, followed by forces personnel and other professionals.

One day Mary introduced herself to a woman she heard speaking English in a store.  The lady, married to an American serviceman, had been in Luxembourg for 6 weeks, and Mary had been the first person to speak to her since her arrival.  Mary realized that there were lonely American women living in this country.  Something must be done to welcome and help newcomers to Luxembourg ... but what ... and how ?

Mary and Kappy joined forces with Marie Taylor, a woman of great drive, whose husband was First Secretary of the American Embassy.  Marie goaded them into action.  She contacted various club leaders in Europe and was offered enthusiastic advice and offers of help, especially from FAWCO.

The adventure began ... she and Mary took a train to meet the Paris club and find out how to go about setting up a constitution.  They then started discussing the matter with other Americans.    Some wanted an informal group, whilst others visualised a real American Women Club patterned along the lines of existing clubs.  What clinched the decision was a visit by former President of FAWCO, Mrs J. P. Ganseman.  She kindled the fires the ladies had built, and a formal vote was won to form the American Women's Club of Luxembourg. 

On March 4, 1959 the first meeting was held.  Sixteen women were present, and Mary's husband commented "Don't tell me that there are 16 of you here now, I thought it was enough with one!"   At this meeting they voted their constitution and bye-laws, and put into words their mission statement: " The object of the group shall be to foster and encourage social, educational, cultural and philanthropic activities among American women in Luxembourg and to assist in furthering American Luxembourg relations".

The club originally provided for Associate Members who were citizens of English-speaking countries.  However, realising this imposed limitations and excluded Luxembourgers, amendments were made to include "any English-speaking woman" up to 25% of the American membership.

Member and Luxembourger, Renee Prussen, was a young girl during the Nazi occupation.  Her countrymen, she said, had a reason to resist and defend their country, and the Americans, a desire to liberate humanity.  The Luxembourg motto is "Mir wëlle bleiwe wat mir sin " (we want to stay what we are), and the Luxembourgers were grateful to the Americans for helping uphold this.

With the war behind them, the newly-founded club members enjoyed the stylish time they lived in.  Hats, gloves and pearls were all the rage and ALWAYS worn to meetings.  The ladies organised fashion shows where they modelled clothes they had sewn themselves.   Their 'meetings' took the form of teas, or long lunches.  The ladies tried many different restaurants, and developed a good knowledge of where, and where not, to eat.  They would often invite a guest speaker to give them insight into current affairs.  Cocktail parties and formal receptions were frequent.  However amidst the "high society" that the ladies enjoyed there was an underlying, important philanthropic element to their activities.

In 1961 the club organised a "Blossom Time Ball", the proceeds of which (26,000 francs) went towards setting up the first ever special clinic for children in Luxembourg.   This donation of funds began a long and respected tradition of charitable giving.  Mary Elvinger explained perfectly:    "You first arrive in a new and foreign country, you look around for a friendly face and a helping hand …. When you are feeling more at home, your question is "Can I help someone", and from there it is a short trip to the query “What can we do in our community and in the International community?"

In November 1961 a motion to join FAWCO was unanimously passed. In April 1962, Mrs Elizabeth Tine, the President of FAWCO addressed the club, and in March 1963 Mrs Fred Hahn became the first Luxembourg representtive.    However, in 1969 a vote was taken to leave FAWCO, and it wasn't until 1984 when newly-elected president Joy Staudt interested and motivated the club into setting the ball rolling once more.  Joy organised for the president of FAWCO to come from Dublin and address them.  A motion was passed 100% by the Board and overwhelmingly by the members and in 1985 the club re-joined.    It was, recalls Joy, a very exciting time - to again have contact with other clubs worldwide, to attend conferences and to once again be involved in the philanthropic work of FAWCO.  A lot of windows were re-opened.

At this time there was still no club house, one person had a home computer, and most of the paperwork was done on typewriters.  1992 saw an office established and, by 2002, the purchase of a clubhouse.

In 1959 51 copies of an edition called "Hints for Living in Luxembourg" was mimeographed.  2005 will see the publication of the 15th edition of "Living in Luxembourg", which continues today to be viewed as an outstanding publication.

Mary Elvinger resides in Luxembourg and remains a member and great supporter of the club.  She maintains that "founding a club is never the work of one or even two persons.  An idea germs and finds welcome soil in other minds and becomes a reality."

The American Women's Club of Luxembourg has carried on in such a progressive way the activities first started by the founding members.  The club, like all great organisations, is constantly evolving to meet the needs of our members, and we thank those visionary ladies of 1959 who laid our strong foundations.

This piece would not have been possible without the input of the following women:  Mary Elvinger, Renée Prussen, Stefania Sakiotis and Joy Staudt